Did you ever walk briskly toward a door, naturally expecting to open it and walk through in stride, but it was locked? Face plant! OK, full body plant. It’s bad enough when no one is looking, even worse when you leave an audience laughing like a night at the improv. Sharing the love and forgiveness in Jesus Christ with others can be like this in a way—some doors of the soul swing wide in welcome, while others lock out the words of life. As I wrote in my first book, Christ in Me, “Many times over the years, I’ve turned away from clear calls to witness, share, or serve and felt awful about it. Other times, I’ve tried to force my own opportunities and felt stupid. But isn’t it exhilarating when we see a God-opened door, take a deep spiritual breath of trust, and then step into the moment? Those are the times we savor. Watch for them.”1
We must realize this: it is God who opens doors in those who would welcome Him, and He accompanies us when we step through them as couriers of the gospel message of new and forever life in Christ. To this end, Paul appealed to the Colossian church for their prayer support: “Pray for us . . . that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should.”2 It is God who opens hearts, and it is He who gives us clear words to reach them.
To the Corinthians, Paul wrote, “A great door for effective work has opened to me, and there are many who oppose me.”3 What can we conclude about “a great door” that has opened, but that it was once impenetrably shut? So we take courage when encountering closed doors, for they may open at any time. Pray for them. Watch for them. Then step inside.
Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.4—Jesus
Father, You open gospel doors in hearts all around us, every day. Grace us to watch for them, to wait for them, and to step through them with the words You give us to speak. Thank You for those who spoke Your words of life to us. In Christ we pray. Amen.
1 Paul Nordman, Christ in Me, (Maitland, Florida: Xulon Press), 84.
2 Colossians 4:3-4
3 1 Corinthians 16:8-9
4 Revelation 3:20
Tag: A Word for Wednesday
Testing 1-2-3
The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but the Lord tests the heart. —Proverbs 17:3
Perhaps nothing produces a greater groan among students than these six words: “We’re going to have a test.” For many, this means study time (or avoiding it) and the prospect of missing their mark yet again. Moreover, for the “fixed mindsets”1 among us, tests results are self-defining, our very identity hinging on peer comparisons. But here is what we overlook when focusing only on our rigors and our errors: tests reveal and affirm what we do know and what we are doing well. IT teams test constantly to find glitches, yes, but also to verify what is functioning as it should. Engineers and manufacturers test routinely, both to assure customer safety and to improve it. Lab results pinpoint real problems and rule out mere possibilities. Tests reveal both progress and potential.
Then should we be surprised that God tests us? After all, isn’t our eternal soul more important than computer programs, consumer products and clinical prognoses that vanish over time? Marveled Job before God, “What is man that You magnify him, and that You are concerned about him, that You examine him every morning and try him every moment?”2 Even in his affliction—and perhaps especially so—this man of legendary suffering understood that tests are ultimately for our good and our glory. “How so?” we ask. First, testing grows us up. “Consider it pure joy . . . whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”3 Second, the more we suffer as Christ did, the more closely we relate with Him—we “participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that [we] may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.”4 Then as we press on through life’s challenges, our tests yield their intended result, for “blessed is a man who perseveres under trial; for once he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.”5
What temptations once snared you, but not so much any longer? I’m guessing there are some. Have you come to trust God more and doubt Him less as you navigated life’s trials with Him? I’ll bet you have. Whether God initiates tests or merely allows them, they serve His purposes and work for our good, for tests reveal our progress and lead us toward our potential, both displaying His handiwork in our lives. Thank God for tests.
Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.7 In Christ I pray. Amen.
1 See more on “fixed” and “growth” mindsets in last week’s post: “The Mindset of Christ.”
2 Job 7:17-18 ESV
3 James 1:2-4
4 1 Peter 4:12-13
5 James 1:12
6 Psalm 139:23-24
The Mindset of Christ
One of the more practical and empowering secular books I have read is Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Stanford University psychology professor Carol Dweck. In it the author contrasts fixed and growth mindsets. Those with fixed mindsets allow their talent and ability to define them. They believe these traits are unchangeable, so self-esteem is based on how one compares with others. Challenges are threatening to the fixed mindset, for any failure is self-defining. For people with growth mindsets, on the other hand, the win is not so much on the comparison with others, but on learning and development. They embrace challenges, struggles, criticism and setbacks, for each is an opportunity for growth. Thankfully, the author asserts that mindsets are belief systems, and those with fixed mindsets can change them. I consider Mindset to be a good read.
In his letter to the church in Philippi, Paul taught on a unique mindset, the servant mindset: “In humility value others above yourselves . . . ”1 Sounds honorable, but isn’t this essentially a fixed mindset, the kind that limits our potential by how we compare to others? Isn’t this a win-lose proposition in which we lose? Are we less valued than those we are called to serve? Not at all. Rather our newfound esteem for others arises from our own encouragement from being in Christ, our own comfort from knowing we are loved, and our own inclusion in the Spirit.2 It is in the marvel that we are loved and the security that we are priceless that we begin to realize also the inestimable value of others. So Paul says “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.”3 This mindset—His mindset—is not the kind that is fixed on ourselves and threatened by humility; it is the mindset that grows in grace and bears fruit.
We are individually and collectively loved by the Creator of all things, and though He is God, He constantly serves us; sometimes we are aware of it, and most times we are not. Humility is no threat to Him—it is His character, it is the mindset of Christ. We could not be more greatly loved or more humbly served than we are. Then in this confidence may we turn our inward gaze outward toward people and serve them as they are—priceless.
Father, valuing others above ourselves is not natural to us; we chafe at the thought. But this is what You do, for You serve us every day. Inspire us to value others above ourselves and to serve them as Your priceless creation. In Christ we pray. Amen.
1 Philippians 2:3
2 Philippians 2:1
3 Philippians 2:3-5