James Thornton is a friend of mine; we attend a Bible study together, and we work out at the same fitness facility. One day I mused to James, a captive audience on the treadmill, “Isn’t it frustrating, the fact that we learn so many important things late in life, things that would have made life so much better had we only known them sooner?” A seasoned smile spread across his face as he slowly shook his head. “No,” he replied, “it tells me God has more things for me to do here, so He’s still working on me. He’s teaching me new things for a reason.” James was right: God never stops molding us for our good and equipping us for His purposes.
Through a life of strife, Jacob shows us the reality that coming to love and trust God takes time, and being transformed into His image, even longer. It is not natural to set aside our will for God’s ways, rather it is the tireless work of His Spirit that changes us through lifelong care. This is to the glory of God and to our favor, for it illumines the depth of sin from which we have been saved and magnifies the beauty of His patience and grace. “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance,”1 wrote Peter. The pace of change that frustrates us as being painfully slow, whether in us or in those we love, is to God quite purposeful—He molds each of us at a tempo that turns us safely to Himself.
To Jacob, God had been the God of his fathers, but not his own. So God waited as Jacob, over time, suffered under the consequences of his own decisions and limited power. Having run from Laban and now toward Esau, both of whom he had cheated, Jacob began see what truly mattered—the futility of his ways and the character of a holy God. “O God of my father Abraham, God of my father Isaac … I am unworthy of all the kindness and faithfulness you have shown your servant … Save me, I pray … for I am afraid.”2 God remained true to His promises, and after Jacob had reconciled and found favor with his two adversaries, he set up an altar3 and named it not after the God of his old name, Jacob [“deceiver”], but the God of his new name, Israel [“he wrestles with God”]. The God of his fathers was now the God of Israel, too.
Father, I confess you transform me not on my timeline, but yours. You know what you’re doing in me, and what you’re doing in me is good. Thank you. Be my God, and help me rest in you as you transform me into the likeness of your Son. In His name, I pray. Amen.
1 2 Peter 3:9
2 Genesis 32:9-11
3 Genesis 33:20
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It is always a blessing to know a post blesses someone else in some way. Thank you for your kind words of encouragement.
Today’s post is prophetic. I’ve been wrestling with deep idols of control and significance that have been/are surfacing in my life in unhealthy ways. This morning in my Wednesday morning men’s group we were sharing our struggles and the lies (stories in our mind) that influence the way we react to some circumstances and criticism from certain people. I need to replace these lies with God’s truth … I am a child of God, He loves me unconditionally, He died for me, is patient with me, etc.
I got in my truck after men’s group to head for work and the songs that came on were New Wine (by Hillsong Worship) and Let It Fade (by Jeremy Camp), which spoke to the transformative work that Jesus can do/is doing in my life. Then, I read Lifelong Learning … Wow! I never saw how closely my life, walk, and wrestling with life’s challenges mirrors that of Jacob.
Thank you my friend. Once again, as you did for me with words you spoke back in 1997 at a tough point in my life, God has used you to speak hope into my life.
God is amazing in all He does. Why would we ever doubt Him, right? I’m glad this was helpful to you. Please know that, by sharing as you have, you’ve built me up in encouragement, as well. And God gets all the glory.